My name is Michael Thomas Vitez. My middle name is for my father, Thomas Vitez, who died in 2004. These are some of the things you may want to know about me:
I am best known, perhaps, as the winner of the 1997 Pulitzer Prize for Explanatory Journalism for a series of stories I wrote, called Final Choices, for The Philadelphia Inquirer. I followed five people as they approached the ends of their lives, and I wrote powerful, intimate narratives about the decisions they made, the choices they faced. These were deeply moving personal stories, but also explained the dramatic changes underway in American society regarding how we die. I will always be most grateful to the people who let me into their lives, and trusted me, at the most tender and private moments of their lives. I am proudest that I didn’t betray that trust, and told stories that were true, powerful and helpful to so many readers. These stories are available at Pulitzer.org.
I have spent my life as a storyteller. My mission has been to celebrate life, to remind readers of the richness of life, to look for the good in people. I prefer to write about ordinary people, everyday people, who do extraordinary things. I carry around a quote in my wallet from William Faulkner’s acceptance speech for the Nobel Prize in 1950. He was referring to the threat of nuclear annihilation when he said, “I believe that man will not merely endure: he will prevail. He is immortal, not because he alone among creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because he has a soul, a spirit capable of compassion and sacrifice and endurance. The poet’s, the writer’s, duty is to write about these things. It is his privilege to help man endure by lifting his heart, by reminding him of the courage and honor and hope and pride and compassion and pity and sacrifice which have been the glory of his past. The poet’s voice need not merely be the record of man, it can be one of the props, the pillars to help him endure and prevail.” One of my favorite books is Faulkner’s Absalom, Absalom. I am no Faulkner for sure. But I try hard to be one of those pillars, to shine a light, to lift man’s heart.
My most exciting and latest example of this effort is the publication of my new book, “‘THE ROAD BACK, A Journey of Grace and Grit.” You can find out much more about it on this site, or on Amazon.com. This is the story of Matt Miller, 20, a University of Virginia student and member of the college triathlon club. He had just pedaled up a Mountain pass. He was on top of the world in so many ways, in love, with dreams of attending medical school, and so fit his resting pulse was 42! And then, cycling on the Blue Ridge Parkway in Virginia, he lost control of his bike, swerved across the double yellow line, and fell into the path of an oncoming Porsche. Matt lay in the road, his face crushed, his brain injured, and no longer breathing. The real story is not what happened, but what happened after. I share with readers the incredible, humbling, miraculous story of Matt’s survival and recovery. This is a story, truly, of grace and grit, of an America that shines _ families, individuals, community and institutions. The story is as gripping as it is inspiring. I wrote about Matt for the Inquirer in 2009, a three part series, and got an overwhelming response. Then I watched him continue to recover in the most astonishing ways, and decided to take a leave and write the book, which will be out by May of 2012. I hope you will read this book and then, if you love it, tell your friends and share your enthusiasm on social media. I have to say that I have a first-class New York agent, but she tried to sell it to 15 New York publishers, from Random House to Rodale, and the book was rejected by all. The publishing industry is even in worse shape than the newspaper industry. So I have decided to publish it myself, which may be a great blessing. This has been a fascinating experience, and the book is available in paperback and as an e-book. Many have raved about The Road Back, including Erin Donohue, the U.S. Olympic 1500 meter runner who said “The Road Back is an incredible story of survival and recovery against all odds. Matt Miller’s focus and determination are unbelievable and inspiring — I’ll never again have an excuse not to get out and train.” And Dong H. Kim, the chairman of neurosurgery at the University of Texas Medical School, who treated Gabby Giffords, said, “This is an absorbing, well-written and inspiring book about a special young man.” I’m not going to spoil the ending. You’re just going to have to read it!
Before THE ROAD BACK, my most felicitous and celebrated accomplishment was my first book, Rocky Stories: Tales of Love, Hope and Happiness at America’s Most Famous Steps, published in November of 2006 by Paul Dry Books of Philadelphia. I wrote the book and my colleague Tom Gralish, a photographer, friend and Pulitzer Prize winner himself, took most of the photographs. (Several, actually are mine, when Tom couldn’t make it!) We spent a year at the steps of the Philadelphia Museum of Art, interviewing and photographing people from all over the nation and the world who came to run those steps like Sylvester Stallone in the Academy Award winning film, Rocky. That movie was 30 years old in 2006 and yet every day the people still come! The book was a labor of love, a great adventure from start to finish. Sylvester Stallone wrote the foreword. You can read more about Rocky Stories at Paul Dry Books.
I have been a staff writer at The Philadelphia Inquirer since 1985, and I specialize in telling wonderful stories about people. I have been all over America and several places in the world for the Inquirer, and you can go to “My favorites” on this site and read 5 of my favorite stories. I have many, many more.
I have had a wonderful career related to journalism. I spent a year, one of the best years of my life, at the University of Michigan as a Michigan Journalism Fellow. I taught writing for several semesters at The University of Pennsylvania, and for one semester as a Ferris Professor of Journalism at Princeton. I have lectured and given talks about writing and storytelling at Poynter Institute workshops, in newsrooms and classrooms around the region, and to many community groups. In October of 2007, I was invited to Hong Kong to speak at the first annual Pulitzer Prize Winners Workshop hosted by Hong Kong Baptist University. My philosophy is simple: In a world overrun with facts, information, websites, cable channels, press releases and noise, I believe the best way to reach people is through stories. Stories unite us, nourish us, and are the best way to communicate. For more about this, and about having me come speak, click on the “Appearances” tap on this website. I got my start in journalism as reporter and editor of the A-Blast at Annandale High School in Annandale, Virginia, and then as reporter and editor-in-chief at The Cavalier Daily at the University of Virginia, where I graduated in 1979. Wahoo-wah. I was invited in June of 2011 to give the commencement address for Annandale High School at Constitution Hall in Washington, D.C. That was a great honor and thrill. A video of my talk is on YouTube. I had stashed an old letter jacket beneath the podium. And a few seconds after I began my talk, I pulled it out and put it on over my gown. What a great moment. The kids loved it. And so did I!
In the last six years, since Rocky Stories was published, I have been asked to give multi-media presentations at many conventions in Philadelphia and beyond. To learn more about this, see My Appearances on this website. In short, I share my own story of how the book came about, and tell the remarkable and inspiring stories of so many people we met at the steps. The talks do two things primarily: 1) Inspire the audience with amazing stories of the people who run the steps and with our own odyssey to publish the book, 2) illustrate the power of storytelling, provide a great sense of Philadelphia and Rocky, and encourage listeners to run the steps to celebrate their own achievements in life.
I was born April, 11, 1957. I am 55! Since 1984, I have been married to Maureen Fitzgerald, a wonderful and beautiful woman who is incredibly patient to put up with me! She is the pride of Pennsbury High School, Indiana University of Pennsylvania and also The Philadelphia Inquirer, where she is currently food editor. We have three terrific children: Tim, 28, graduated from the University of Delaware (Go Blue Hens!) and is in sales, working now for Vanguard, living in Philadelphia. Sally, 26, who graduated in May 2008 from Kenyon College with a degree in molecular biology (cum laude!), spent the summer of 2008 in Tanzania working in a public health clinic, worked four years for the National Institutes of Health in Washington, D.C., and started medical school this fall at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in New Jersey. And Jonathan, 21, universally known as Boo, is our baby, a junior at Princeton, where he runs cross country and track. Yeah, Boo! We also have a dog, Rocky, named in honor of my book, who is a long-haired dachshund. His great decisions daily are whether to nap on the chair, or the couch, or the rug…
I have lived for 26 years now in Haddonfield, New Jersey, where I have a wonderful life. I have a tennis group, a poker group, and many, many friends. I coached soccer and baseball for many years, and my philosophy was always to emphasize the joy and eliminate the pressure. We had so much fun. In one championship game, a young boy, 11, Ryan Webb, went to bat with the bases loaded, two outs and the game on the line. He was understandably nervous. Earlier that day, his dog, Cyrus, had been neutered. I pulled Ryan aside in the on-deck circle. No matter what happened, I told him, even if he struck out looking, he’d still have a better day than his dog. He grinned broadly and doubled home the winning runs. This is now known as the Cyrus Rule.
I grew up in North Springfield, Virginia. I loved growing up in Northern Virginia, and moving away, to pursue my newspaper career, devastated me more than I realized. My mother still lives in the same house where I grew up. She’s now 86 and still independent, swimming three times a week, playing recorder, and loving online bridge. My parents, Thomas and Marianne Vitez, were immigrants. Dad fled from Budapest, Hungary in 1939 to escape Hitler. A German Jew, my mother had an even more harrowing escape from Hitler and Europe, arriving at Ellis Island in New York in 1941. The Jewish charities helped my mother and her parents get on their feet. My mother and father met in New York City, in Washington Heights, and my dad’s job with the Internal Revenue Service brought them to the Washington area. They have both written their life stories. My father died from leukemia in 2004.
I have two wonderful brothers, Danny and Larry. Danny and his family live in Virginia Beach. Dan is an accountant. His wife, Gail, is the pride of Greene County, Va. His sons, Kevin and Doug, both attended the University of Virginia. Larry and his family live in Charlotte, N.C. He is an investment advisor. He has started up North Carolina Community Sailing and Rowing, on Lake Norman, to enable people of all walks of life and abilities learn to discover and love sailing as he has. It is up and running, and growing, an incredible accomplishment. His wife, Carla, has literally written the book on invasive species. He has two wonderful daughters, Natalie and Celeste. I am lucky, lucky, lucky to have two such great brothers.
I love to run, swim, bike ride, play tennis and poker and I’m not very good at any of them. My favorite writer is Joseph Mitchell, who spent his career writing for The New Yorker, though I also love the stories of Ernie Pyle, war correspondent during WWII. My favorite novel is Lonesome Dove. My favorite movie is Good Will Hunting. My favorite thing to eat is chocolate ice cream. Growing up, I loved the Dallas Cowboys (Calvin Hill, Bob Lilly, Bob Hayes, etc), the New York Knicks (Walt Frazier, Willis Reed, Dave Debusschere, etc) and the Boston Bruins (Bobby Orr, Phil Esposito, Johnny Bucyk, etc) and my favorite athlete of all time is Willie Mays. I once interviewed Willie Mays in Hartford, Connecticut, when I worked at the Hartford Courant and he came to town to promote a new autobiography. Willie Mays taught me a valuable lesson. I was young and a know-it-all, and I wanted to interview him about his book. He asked me if I’d read it. I had not. He handed me a copy, and told me to come back in two hours. He taught me respect. The book wasn’t very good, but I loved Willie Mays because he was so versatile, he could do it all — without steroids!